Said adieu to love

A little effort goes a long way.

Keep your relationship exciting. Surprise her every now and then, give her something out of the blue, write her a note and hide it somewhere for her to find. These are so very basic. Things that require very little effort. There is no such thing as not having time, or not knowing what to do. If you want to make her happy, you will find a way. She will get tired of your excuses one day. Don’t wait for that day to come. You are not incapable of making her feel loved and special, you just refuse to try.

Promises and words are nice. They’re reassuring and they’re nice to hear. But telling your partner that you love him or her won’t always be enough. Sometimes, you have to do something special to prove it. Relationships mean effort and trust. Both are equally important. Remember to always treat your partner right, because if you don’t, someone else most probably will.

Read this for the sake of your relationship.

There are a lot of kinds of couples today. There are those who are infinitely, publicly expressive, those who choose to express themselves privately, and those who are almost completely reserved, even to each other. Of these three kinds, I find that the ones that last the longest are the ones that choose to express themselves more often.

There is a lot more to being expressive and sweet than just making your partner feel butterflies. It makes them feel special and loved to see that you would put effort into going out of your way to do something different for them. It keeps things from becoming boring and repetitive. It keeps a relationship happy and healthy, especially if the effort comes from the both of you. And most importantly, it reminds you why you fell in love with your partner to begin with. It causes you to think of things to do, things you haven’t done, and causes you to remember the moments you’ve shared. In a way, it keeps you form looking elsewhere. I mean, how could you even think about other women or men when you’re too busy thinking of things to do for the very special one you have right now?

So guys, do it for her. She’s the best thing that has ever happened to you, right? Show her. She’ll love it.

Girls, he loves you and takes care of you, doesn’t he? Do it for him. He’ll love you even more.

Couples, do it for each other. Do it for a healthy relationship. Do it because your partner is worth it. Being sweet and expressive has so many benefits. Write a simple letter, leave a note in an unexpected place, do something different! Just make sure to be sincere.

Remember, treat your partner right, or someone else will. Keep things exciting, and expect to make your relationship last a lifetime.

Being sweet everyday is much better than being sweet just on special occasions. But being sweet on special occasions is much better than not being sweet at all.

If she’s the best girl to have ever walked into your life, then why don’t you fucking act like it?

She loves you.

Even with all your flaws, all your short-comings, all your mistakes, all the terrible things you’ve said and done, she loves you. She stayed with you through everything, and even though she still hurts sometimes, she would never want to be without you. There would be no greater pain than that of losing you.

She loves you, you dork. Don’t ever take her for granted.